Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Masculine females

Females w/ masculine personalities repel masculine men and attract feminine men. Although the masculine exterior exists fundamentally she's feminine and will eventually desire a masculine man to take care of her. That is a problem for the feminine guy bc he won't be able to live up to that standard.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Ten Commandments of the Female Nerd

  1. Thou shall be user friendly
  2. Thou shall love thineself, for thou art a rare and noble breed, and worth it. 
  3. Thou shalt never use thine sex or thine superpowers for ill.
  4. Thou shalt not start drama, for it is the bane of all nerd-dom. 
  5. Thou shall know thine shit, and not rely on thine sex appeal to keep thyself in good standing with the non-mammaried nerds. 
  6. Thou shall have good fashion sense, if it pleaseth thee, and if not, thou shalt not care, regardless of social convention
  7. Thou shalt not mother thine colleagues, for they are well able to care for themselves. 
  8. Thou shalt not take shit. 
  9. Thou shalt not care if a man giveth thee shit, and if a woman giveth thee shit, thou shalt not take it personally, for they know not what they do
  10. Thou shall be generally awesome, and all shall love ye (and despair).

Sunday, November 21, 2010

I can wait for a Boyfriend

     I have grown up in a society where having a boyfriend is an obsession. It makes a girl popular. He makes her feel wanted and loved. Many girls define themselves by their boyfriends,

and when he's gone, they lose themselves. I don't have a boyfriend, and I don't particularly want one. It may sound crazy, but I am not looking for a boyfriend.

Unlike the majority of my peers, I view the endless search for a significant other as a waste of time. Life is busy, and a boyfriend takes time and commitment: time I would rather spend with my friends, and a commitment I don't need at 23.

Sure, it might be nice to have someone to spend Saturday night with when all my friends are with their boyfriends. I have someone no other guy can even compare with, to whom I can tell all my thoughts, dreams and even insecurities.

I am not writing off boyfriends, I'm just not getting caught up in the idea of one. Someday I'm going to marry a man, so why should I waste time with guys I would not want to marry? No, I don't know who I will marry, but I know that any part I give to a guy is a small part I have taken from him. I want to give my future husband everything, so I have to be cautious what parts of my heart I share. Having a boyfriend isn't committing to marriage, but it isn't meaningless, either.

People say that with a theory like mine, I can't expect to ever find a guy, but I disagree. My theory will turn some guys away, but the guys I would actually want to date will stick around. Society tries to trick me into believing that if I don't have a boyfriend it is because no guy wants me, but society is wrong. I am not defined by the man I am dating, and I do not need a boyfriend to know who I am.

I have faith that I will find the right guy at the right time. It may take longer than I might like and more patience than I think I have, but someday my one true love will come. While I wait, I won't obsess over what I cannot change or over guys who turn away. I will focus on the here and now. My focus is on my friends, family and faith. It sounds crazy, but someday I will have a bunch of rugrats running around, and they will have an awesome father - I just know it.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Asian people are cool!

Asian people are very interesting. Their culture is so different from mine but oddly similar in many ways. Their are many similarities between Asian cultural expectations when it comes to family and Hispanic families. Both are very strict  and overprotective especially over the females. Females are expected to be conservative, prim and proper, dainty, and homely, and submissive in both cultures. Asian food is really good except for some flat Thai noodles I had once. I felt like vomiting because they were so slimy in my mouth. I  really like how Asian people cook duck. I've had Laotian  and Chinese duck and its very good. I wish I knew how to make it. (except for the greasy part). So Im not really into eating greasy food its so nasty and horrible. There's nothing worse than biting into food and having a whole tub of oil in your mouth . disgusting!

Quiet bitchy people are annoying

Have you ever met someone who came across as quiet but soon enough you started to notice they are always complaining and finding fault with everything and everyone. I cant stand quiet bitchy people. They are the worse. They are also usually insecure about something and bitch about everything to make themselves feel better. Moreover the ones I have met usually try to flaunt their intellectual proweress but are just so dumb because they have no street smarts. They have a hard time understanding its not what you know but WHO you know that makes the difference in life. Anyways I'm kind of just rambling. Point is quiet bitchy nerdy people are annoying. They usually have horrible social skills and cant seem to understand why they don't have a lot of friends. They never have anything interesting to add to a conversation or social scene and many times clam up in public around  people with actual personalities. Quiet bitchy people don't actually have interesting personalities. Their whole personality is based on criticizing things and people to look cool and complaining about how the they dont fit into society and everything thinks they are weird. Moreover, they are sore losers and most importantly unremarkable IMO. STAY AWAY FROM THESE FREAKS FROM HELL.

I love NYC

There are so many avenues to further your career and there are many ways to have your career evolve. Funny you have the option of taking a really technical degree and applying it to marketing, communications, p.r., tv & radio. I'm so excited!! I love how life is always bringing in amazing new  opportunities into my life. I want to try it all! Its cool too bc having a degree makes getting jobs easier..or at least helps you get your foot in the door faster. Anyways.......Im working in Times Square right now in the wax museum and its pretty cool.

Fat chicks are annoying

Okay, so the stereotype seems to be that the pretty girls are bitches, and all the girls with great personalities are ugly/fat.

However, over the years, I have actually encountered the opposite of this effect. This is quite a broad generalization to make, but it seems that all the fat/ugly girls I meet are the most irritating and annoying. They tend to be loud-mouthed, never shut up about things that nobody cares about, and just generally don't realize how much that everybody else hates them.

Or maybe they do. Maybe they've become this way because everybody does hate them. Maybe it's a reaction to how people treat them -- since people ignore or condescend to them because they are ugly/fat, maybe they counter it by being even more assertive and annoying, so that they will get more attention.

But whatever. I don't care. The point is that the only nice girls I meet are also pretty and cute, and most of the irritating bitches are fat. Go figure.