Type O Blood

The universal donor
can save any one, but

only a universal donor
can save type O blood.


Only type  O can save type O
As  transfused  into all other types

can bring  life.
In an emergency Type O blood
can save any individual
although a Type O blood individual
would have a harder time being saved.

Shakira has sold out

Has Shakira sold out?  I am compelled to say she has but then again is selling out such a bad thing? Sure there might be a few songs that have completely changed and don't resonate with any of the other Shakiraesque style  but is that really so bad?  

Not like she writes all of her own songs. Not like she offered $10 concert tickets in low-income cities. Not like she started a charity foundation when she was 18 and donates millions of dollars to build schools in Colombia and Haiti. Not like she meets with presidents around the world to try to improve early childhood education. Not like she's scandal-free in the tabloids. Not like there is NO ONE in the entertainment industry who has ever had anything bad to say about her, ever. She's a total sellout.  --

Shakira is still A-OK in my book even if  Shewolf, Loca, and Give it Up  seem really out there compared to all her other stuff. She hasn't "changed" she has grown -up in a different place in her life.

Spanish girls dating white guys

White men are attracted to latinas but they usually go for the ones who act 'white' or who are very traditional. I have heard from white males that I personally know that they like them because they feel they are exotic and they wonder about how she might be in bed due to the stereotype of latinas as being muy CALIENTE. ay ay ay!
I would be scared to date a white guy due to this. I want someone who likes me for more than just my darker skin color, long cury hair, accent, food, and body. White men are attracted to the culture but they expect you to give up a certain part of your culture in order to accomodate their WHITENESS and lack of culture. I have heard directly from white guys that they feel boring and they like other cultures' women because these women are different. I think that is cool but don't date me with the hidden intention of one day expecting me to change and accomodate your WHITENESS. I will never do that. If I want to go salsa dancing I am not going to change my plans in order to go with you to some boring white people party or event. I have nothing against white people but standing around talking and drinking beer is not my idea of fun. I love to dance and if you cannot or refuse to shake your stiff white ass alongside me then I will never meet you half way. I could never date a white who only likes me for my exterior. I need more to keep me interested than our physical differences. Plus work on not being so stiff seriously...

Feelings- Cool Calm Collected vs. Dramatic

Some people demonstrate their feelings through words others through actions. Which one are you? Actions matter more than words, and if a person's words do not align with their actions it's best to distance yourself, let em know, or cut em loose. A friend isn't always someone who tells you exactly what you want to hear or reacts in the way you expect. A friend also calls you out on your bullshit and helps you grow. People who openly express a lot of feelings aren't always authentic. Being emotionally expressive does not equate with being genuine. But in this society those who are the most expressive are for some strange reason considered to be genuine. Maybe I just hangout or am surrounded by lots of dramatic people. Being cool calm and collected isn't accepted for females. Females are expected to always be dainty and emotional. Whereas a female who can deal with matters in a rational manner is considered cold- hearted or detached. Although those who resort to pouting or emotional manipulation are viewed as being normal and reacting normally. Females who are more logical are not the norm, and considering how few of them there are its almost like being an alien. TBC

LIFE

Crazy NYC train fight!

So recently this video came out for the Holidays about a fight on the 6 train.

You can watch it here. Be careful in these New York City Trains.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJfRb2oBhFo

Shame on the people in the car, shame on MTA and the conductor who clearly saw the woman fall to the ground and hit the side of the train, yet continued to leave the station without calling for assistance. Ambulance, police, fire dept, somebody. MADNESS, PURE MADNESS!!!

Givers, Takers, Sharers

THERE are two kinds of people. You have the givers and there are the takers. Regardless of character and personality, you can break the people of the whole world down into these two broad categories.
Among the dynamic persons, there are the dynamic givers who give more than they take. Then there are the dynamic takers who take a whole lot more than they give.You have quiet givers who work like crazy for others. Then there are the quiet takers who quietly take and give a little.There are the talkative givers and the talkative takers. Shy givers and shy takers. People of every stripe, ...

Every one in abusive relationships thinks there’s only two groups of people: Givers and Takers. But there’s a third group. And once you know, understand and ’get’ the third group on a gut level, it all starts to fall into place and your relationships start to work out. The third group is Sharers. Sharers know in their mind, their heart and their soul they deserve to receive as well as give. Sharers know, over the long run, the relationship will balance out to be 50/50 give and take. Sharers have a healthy self respect and they expect their partner to treat them with respect, the same respect they give their partner. When they don’t, a Sharer leaves.
When there are two givers in a relationship, the relationship is poised for success as both partners take the time to give and to nourish each other.

Because there is more blessing in giving than receiving, I implore you to commit to being a giver for the rest of your relationship; aim to become a giver rather than a taker. Just in case you are a taker, wondering where to begin or what to give, here is a short list of inexpensive items that your partner should be sure to enjoy.

1. Foot massage or back rub No cost
2. One hour of listening ear No cost
3. Quality time No cost
4. Three little wishes No cost
5. Stroll in the park No cost
6. Setting the bath No cost
7. Little love notes No cost
8. Helping with house work No cost

Since it is better to give than to receive, no wonder, successful relationships are those where both partners are givers. Show your appreciation this Christmas by getting creative or giving something special. Remember to give according to your budget and the taste of your partner.

When it relates to showing love, analyze if you are a giver or taker. In love a giver will do what it takes to make the other person happy and not look out for their own interest. A giver will hold the door open for you, buy you dinner and go the extra mile without expecting anything in return. A giver will not steal, cheat or lie. A taker will seek out ways to make themselves happy, never be satisfied with what you do and drain you as they seek more and more from the relationship. A taker will steal, cheat and lie.
When it relates to friendship, are you a giver or taker?


In friendships a giver will take the time and get to know your likes and dislikes and be sure to try and please you. A giver will buy you gifts, help when necessary (even without asking), share and just be there for you. A taker will look for ways that you differ, continuously pick out your flaws and always have an excuse why they couldn't be there for you. A giver will give their last and a taker will take your last.

When it relates to work (secular), are you are a giver or taker?. At work, a giver will go above and beyond to make sure the corporation or business is successful. Even when the boss is not looking, they will complete their work and be courteous to the customers. A taker will feel like the company owes them something despite their work performance. A taker will leave early, take longer lunches and work with an attitude.