Monday, January 5, 2009

I hate Nosy people

She remarks on your outfits and accessories and asks where you get them? Or inquires about your job or internship? Maybe even seems to be very interested in your personal life or feelings? But can you honestly say you know much about them? Everyone's dealt with nosy people before. It is up to you to decide how you will react to them. We all choose whether consciously or unconsciously our reactions in any given situation. But some nosy people have no cure. It seems like they can't take a hint, so when you are pretty blunt or upfront about not wanting them too close in your life they take it personally. The worst type of nosy person is the nosy person who knows everyone's business but NO ONE knows ANYTHING about theirs. Beware of this type of person they usually come across as being very charismatic, friendly, trustworthy, and outgoing but do not be fooled. I hate these people. They are very careful and even go to great lengths such as lying before disclosing any information about themselves but will happily bask in the layers of your personal life. They will also happily use your personal life against you to back stab you, demean you, or gain a higher social role. Some of them are special enough to even copy some of whatever it is you have. We must be wary of those who inquire but never disclose. People like this MUST be kept at a DISTANCE. I learned that the best way to shutdown a nosy person is to simply reply with, "I don't ask you about your personal life, so please don't ask me about mine," or just make a funny joke along the lines of, "Damn _fill in the blank_ your always so nosy damn!," and watch that nosy motherfucker shutdown and maintain his/her distance!

WARNING: If this nosy person is really persistent just call them out on their shit or ignore them completely. Limit social interaction to the bare minimum eventually they will get the hint and back off. You will never have to deal with this person ever again!! Or you can go this route and punch that nosy bitch in their boob!

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